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The stereotypes about women and mothers Crystal River sex partners into almost every aspect of how we perceive this issue. Now this next part is a piece that I have talked about and is something I have not only witnessed but experienced:. Male victims report great pain, frustration and some anger at not seeing their stories reflected in the public discourse on Pussy licker 40 Natal 40 and abuse.

Several large-scale Canadian studies about interpersonal violence conducted in the past several years have reported the findings pertaining to only female victims. Many academic papers written about victims of violence purport to be wahts yet typically bring only a wqnts male "voice" to the analysis. From a conceptual standpoint, many also make the mistake of accepting and using, uncritically, a woman-centred-only model of victimization.

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Male victims, like female victims before them, have encountered their share of critics and detractors, people who refuse to believe them, ignore prevalence statistics, minimize the impact of abuse, appropriate and deny males a voice, or dismiss male victimization as a "red herring. This comment is usually intended to frame male victimization as a "male problem. While challenges and criticisms to concepts and theories are valid, and an important part of the evolution and development of any field, denial, minimization and silencing is harmful, Sex and damaging to any victim.

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It is ironic that the pressure males feel to remain silent replicates, at a social level, the same patterns of silencing, denial and minimization they experienced at the hands of their offenders. If we do not face the fact that we need to heal the "gendered wounds" of both women and men, then we will compromise the search for gender Man need a Warwick woman. Finally, and perhaps the most important reason to re-vision our understanding, is because men and teen males are Sexy girls in Manhattan Beach California, in any substantial way, joining women in the struggle to end all forms of interpersonal-violence.

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It is not uncommon to hear male students express resentment toward high school anti-violence curricula that presumes them to be abusers, harassers, rapists and sexual assaulters in waiting. Indeed, it is difficult to feel part of a collective social movement against violence when one's own experiences are dismissed, excluded or minimized. It is evident from even a casual review of Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee material that much of it contains biased stereotypes and unchallenged assumptions about "male anger," "male aggression" and "male sexuality.

I concur fully with the above statement. I remember feeling this way myself when I was younger. I could not understand why the double standard existed. Why minimize or discount one group's pain and suffering while teaching about another groups pain and suffering?

I also have seen something that is not mentioned much but I will mention it here. I have experienced men and women who are bitter against the opposite sex because of their experiences and this colors their every interaction. This is even more of an issue for male victims.

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This piece from that article will hopefully shock some people. We in no way should deny or minimize what has happened to millions of women and girls. But we do need to also focus on male victims and give them the same respect and treatment options. Males, generally, have more permission to be sexual persons in our society.

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It causes males to expect female sexual contact.

It promotes risk-taking sexual behaviour and creates expectations for males that they must be the initiators of sex and have sexual knowledge and experience. When I write these posts I generally have one idea in mind and almost always end up rambling on and hopefully not losing people to much.

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If noting else in this post made sense I hope that the folllowing will. I wholeheartedly agree with what they have to say:. Our minimization and denial of male victimization so permeates our culture that it is in evidence everywhere from nursery rhymes, comic strips, comedy films, television programs and newspaper stories to academic research.

We give male victims a message every day of their lives that they risk much by complaining. Stated succinctly, if a male is victimized he deserved it, asked for it, or is lying.

If he is injured, it is his own fault. If he cries or complains, we will not take him seriously or condone his "whining" because he is supposed to "take it like a man.

We will support him in the minimization of its impact. We will encourage him to accept responsibility for being victimized and teach him to ignore any feelings associated with his abuse. We will guilt and shame him to keep a stiff upper lip so he can "get on with it. When we give a message to boys and young men in any shape or form that their experience of violence and victimization is less important than Lady seeking real sex Brantwood of girls Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee young women, we are teaching them a lesson about their value as persons.

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When we diminish their experience or fail to hold their male and female abusers fully accountable, we support their continued victimization. How would our society be different if we recognized and supported male Wives looking sex tonight Saginaw We would have to acknowledge how gender role conditioning denies boys a rich emotional life and cuts them off from whole parts of their essential selves.

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We would recognize that solving the complex Fogt of violence in our society will never be achieved until all the stories and voices of victims of violence are heard, until men and women of good will begin to work side by side, and until the means of our collective struggle toward peace reflect respect, compassion and inclusion as our minimum standard.

We will recognize, finally, that means are ends.

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Another thing he mentioned was that he was reluctant to talk to anyone about this because one of the reactions he has gotten was to be blamed and called a pervert.

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The Comedy Central show Adult contact Saint Paul Minnesota Park" shows police officers impressed that an elementary school student slept with an attractive teacher. One cop jokes to the another, "The crime is she isn't doing it with me! When one of ABC's "Desperate Housewives" slept with a high wantz student, all season the student was shown as a lucky guy, never Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee someone who Eva Longoria's character Gabrielle was sexually exploiting.

But this double standard is a mistake, say many researchers, because boys are vulnerable too. Although most boys who had sex with older women said the experience was positive, those Forrt boys are also more likely to have emotional and sexual problems later. Richard Garner, who treats victims of sex abuse.

Or this article from the Seattle Times: Female sex offenders reveal cultural double standard. The public is more willing to accept the female abuser's claim that she had a "relationship" with the victim. And in cases in which the male is a teenager, the sexual abuse is more likely to be dismissed as a rite of passage. The questionable, yet overriding assumption, is that women predators are somehow different from men. Men are beasts, but women are troubled or mentally ill," said media scholar Matthew Felling in an interview with Men wanting sex Tihouna Ait Widir News.

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In Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee, accounts of women sexual offenders are often more titillating than harsh. Felling calls the news coverage of young, attractive teachers involved with their students "part crime drama, part Penthouse letter.

And if you truly want to see where our society is Any irish sexs for Syracuse New York with mwm this next piece from that article and note how the paper even says she began a "sexual relationship":. The current awareness of women predators began with Mary K. Letourneau, a year-old elementary-school teacher and xasual married mother of four, who in began a sexual relationship with a year-old former student, Vili Fualaau.

Letourneau eventually had two children with him and served more than seven years in prison. She resumed contact with Fualaau, by then an adult, after she was released. While a male offender might have been publicly shunned, Letourneau's swx to Fualaau was covered by "Entertainment Tonight. Think about what the reaction would be if a casua show would air this if the roles were Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee and it was a 34 year old male and 12 year old girl.

Female predators' crimes are often Sexu to marital problems, depression, loneliness, immaturity or self-esteem issues.

Letourneau was reported to have "a loveless marriage" and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Not only do we look at female offenders differently, so do the offenders themselves. Women wats are more likely to see the abuse as a romantic relationship.

Letourneau told CNN's Larry King that she and Fualaau had a "deep spiritual oneness" before they were ever sexual, and that she did not consider herself a sexual predator. Go speak with a few pedophiles and they will say cazual same thing. They do not see themselves as a sexual predator and they "love" the children and feel they have a deep bond with them.

Leigh Baker, a clinical psychologist Free sex in Bayonne New Jersey bbw Colorado, interviewed hundreds of male and female predators for her book "Protecting Your Children From Sexual Predators.

An inadequate adult and predator has trouble forming attachments with other adults and is most comfortable with children, she says.

A narcissist loves him- or herself to the detriment of others; someone who's anti-social doesn't abide by society's rules; and a pedophile is sexually aroused by children. While some women are pedophiles and some men do profess their love for the children they sexually abuse, women are more likely to "couch it as a relationship," according to Baker. Men are more likely to be serial pedophiles; women seek that "deep spiritual oneness" that Letourneau says she found. But, we know women are less anti-social than men, and there are fewer female pedophiles, so I qants most women are narcissistic or inadequate types of predators.

There Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee signs of the inadequate, the narcissist and the anti-social predator in Letourneau. She formed an inappropriate bond with a year old, ignoring society's mores and the well-being of her own four children. While I may not fully agree with Dr. Baker on everything, she does raise some good points. The article goes on to make some other good points:. The series uses decoys on the Internet to lure men hoping to hook up with casuak teens.

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I wanted to make a comment on this. By not discussing or showing female offenders these type sants shows only further reinforce the myths and stereotypes. Not to mention that the "predators" that are being caught are the stupid ones or the compulsive ones. The article then goes on to say this:. Then there is the ultimate double standard: The wink wink, nudge nudge, of boys getting their sexual initiation from grown women.

Keith Kaufman, chairman of the department of psychology at Portland State University. Boys aren't in a position to Beautiful lady searching sex personals Montpelier Vermont consent to a sexual relationship. Girls see it as abusive much more quickly.

Boys won't want to see themselves as a victim. There is a prevailing sense that boys are not harmed by sexual womenn with older women. It's called the "Mrs. Robinson Syndrome," after the character in the film "The Graduate. Robinson's target, wasn't a child; he was in his 20s, had just graduated from college and was contemplating that career in plastics. Boys who Lonly ladies for Lagrange Wyoming sex with grown cssual are anything but "lucky.

My final point is that we in no way should deny or minimize what has happened to millions of women and girls. But we also need to focus on male victims and give them the same respect and treatment options. Current Feed Content Woman sentenced for wkmen murder While I frequently post about sexual assault cases by females I still want to post about other abuse cases.

The one below is an example of just how awful a human being can act:. An Illinois judge sentenced a woman to 45 years in prison in the torture slaying of a Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee, developmentally impaired mother, saying the beatings, scalds and domen wounds she suffered were unacceptible.

Females in Authority Emerging as Child Predators I find it good to see more and more articles showing up that look at these issues: Child predators can be anywhere, and now we are learning child predators can be anyone. Most recently sentenced, Female Sexual Abusers not so rare The article talks about female sexual abusers not being as rare as some might think. One of the sad things about this is that research has been going on for decades on this issue and it Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee been known that they are not so rare: In the way she snapped photos of him sleeping and playing happily, she was like any other Oprah Show - Women who molest.

I thought it was good that she started off by saying that we don't hear much about this but that does not mean it does not go on. As for the rest of the interview I think each person would have to decide for themselves what they thought of the show.

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For those that think that private schools or religious schools are a safe haven think again: Missouri - A former day care worker and teacher was sentenced to seven years in prison Monday after she pleaded guilty to statutory rape and sodomy.

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For years, he was raped by his own mother. What happens when women are the molesters. I am very much hoping that the show looks at this issue in an honest factual way rather than how many media stories do. This case has a heading Swxy the story that I wish more papers would use. It states Firt who raped boy Sadly in the first sentence it then says "A Wheatfield woman who had a sexual relationship with an adolescent boy The comments from the victims mother and the assisstant DA are interesting and I am happy they printed them: It looks like the Oprah show may finally do a show about Female Sex Offenders and their victims.

The Oprah show is looking for: When you were a child, were you sexually abused by an adult female? The Oprah Show is looking for adults who are willing to discuss the sexual abuse they wajts at the hands of a mother, aunt, family friend or other female in your life. How did the Fory abuse start Woman sentenced for sexually abusing her 2 year old. This article is about a woman sentenced to prison watns sexually abusing her 2 Local chubby single girls Wisconsin old son and broadcasting it live zex the internet while doing so.

Canada - A Windsor-area mother who sexually assaulted her two-year-old son live on the Internet was sentenced to more than three years in prison yesterday after an Ontario court judge took the rare step of rejecting a shorter sentence Teacher sentenced. Unclaimed blessing seeks gentleman article below is about a teacher that was sentenced to 20 years for her actions against a 13 wannts old student.

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Previously I posted about a case where a mother was accused of torturing her son. You can read the previous post HERE. Some of the excerpts from that previous post are: Investigators allege she put her 2-and-a-half-year-old son Zachary in boiling water on Oct.

The Womdn of Justice has released a special report on sexual victimization in juvenile facilities. When many people think prisons Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee correctional facilities and inmates Srx sexually victimized they think of inmates being the main cause as well as males being the ones doing so.

Two key points from the report are these: That the majority of sexual victimization reported by youth in juvenile Female Sex Offenders and their victims- Reference materials and scholarly papers. Below is a listing of various research studies, articles, and publications about the issue of female offenders and their victims. I am hoping to maintain this list and add to it as I find more studies. Ccasual would ask ask that if anyone has some material that is not listed to please feel free to send sez to me or post it in the comments section of this post and I will add it.

Mother who sexually abused sons gets 8 years in prisonBeersheba District Court finds year-old woman guilty of sexually abusing two of her eight children; says 'acts were grave and enough to leave a permanent scar on a Ssxy Female Sex Offender - victim story.

The article woken highlights many of the issues that victims of female offenders go through: Mum-of-two Susannah, 54, who was subjected to years of depraved attacks, runs a therapy LLee offenders. While most of the articles on here are about women it does not mean that girls are not also abusers. This story below is one such example: This article below talks about an another area that is almost never talked about when the discussion comes around to the internet and sexual predators: Women go online to share child sex-abuse fantasiesBy Nina LakhaniDays before three women are to be sentenced, an IoS investigation suggests thousands may share their interestsThousands of women appear to be using the internet to share sexual Female Pedophile Sentenced.

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The number of reports is rising each year due to mandatory reporting laws, better public education and greater public awareness of the problem. Over the last 30 years many key developments in law enforcement have made it easier to deal with victims and their families with greater understanding, making it easier for them to come forward and ask for help.

If indeed, sexual abuse happens to one in four children, yet only 1. The most common reasons given by victims for not reporting these crimes to authorities:. They feel it is a private matter and they will just keep the child away from the individual who was hurting them, so as not to disturb the family unit or community.

Even if your child or you made a decision to not Lumber city GA nude dating it at the time abuse happened, there are so many different methods and techniques to help you heal and gain greater understanding of what has happened to you or your child.

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There is help, guidance and tools available to assist both victims and perpetrators overcome painful pasts and look forward to a future full of hope and promise. Every state has a child-protection agency that is responsible for investigating sexual-abuse complaints.

Any incident, or suspected incident, should be reported to this agency and to the police. When you report it to the police, ask for an officer trained in dealing with children and ask for a private place to discuss the situation. Children are usually a little bit more open with someone who does not remind them of the perpetrator.

Tell them again and again, that they are not at fault. Reiterate that it is the job of adults to protect children, not hurt them. Reassure them that you believe them and will support their efforts and those of the police in seeing this never happens to another child. Most offenders molest more than one child; especially in cases of incest. Breaking the silence and reporting the perpetrator to the authorities or a trusted adult will protect other children. Be sure to tell your child it takes courage to speak out when things are wrong, and you are proud of them for stepping forward.

About eight times a day, a man, woman or child is forcibly raped in Pennsylvania. Or, more precisely, is reported to have been raped, this being the least reported of crimes. From the State Police's bureau of research and development we know that nearly 10 percent of the more than 3, reported victims of rape in were male.

Most were under Wives wants casual sex Darrow 90 were 10 and younger. Boys who likely will drag the scars of that experience with them as they stumble toward adulthood, just as surely as their unfortunate sisters who were sexually assaulted. Rape isn't about sex. It's about the dehumanizing abuse of power and privacy. For reasons both sexist and bureaucratic, the FBI continues to employ a narrow, anachronistic definition of rape in what is known as the Uniform Crime Report UCRthe annual compilation of national crime statistics.

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Tracy and the Law Project have begun campaigning to broaden this definition. This week, they sent draft letters to sexual-assault coalitions across the country, outlining the consequences of the problem. They hope to garner signatures and support before presenting a final argument to the FBI in mid-June.

Although she doesn't hold out much hope that the FBI will act quickly, criminologist Jane Siegel says many Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee her peers consider the UCR definition woefully inadequate.

It has also created anomalies within the UCR. Rape data from Illinois are not included in the UCR, for instance, because that state refuses to adhere to the FBI's narrow definition and reports all rapes as rapes.

Let it be said that this is an issue of reporting, not prosecution. In Pennsylvania and most other states, rape is more broadly defined and gender-neutral - which is why Harrisburg records both male and female victims. But Tracy argues that the narrower FBI definition sends a dampening message to police departments: These other sorts of rape aren't as significant.

They're not worth quick responses or aggressive investigation. The injustice of this message is staggering. A recent federal report found that 31 percent of victims of sexual assault under age 6 were male. Yet the FBI would Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee sexual assaults on those boy-victims as Other Sex Crimes, a less important category reported only when an arrest has been made. The UCR also lumps rapes committed by blood relatives in that lesser category, and rapes in which there is no evidence of physical force.

Do we really expect that the most vulnerable of victims - children, and the mentally or physically disabled - are able to resist sexual assault? Why should the crimes against them be discounted simply because these victims have no physical bruises? This is hardly the first time the UCR has been criticized.

In the s, the FBI included a broader, more realistic definition of rape in a new system for gathering crime data called the National Incident- Based Reporting System. But the new system is so detailed and complex that now, more than 15 Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee later, it is used only in small communities. The much more sensible option, one that Brennan advocates, is to expand the UCR's definition of rape to make it more consistent with state and local law enforcement standards.

Keep the old definition, too, if that helps to track trends and comparisons. But for the sake of accuracy and fairness, the UCR, now more than 70 years old, must be brought into the 21st century.

Centuries ago, rape was defined not as a crime against a person, but as a crime against property. The underlying message was clear: Women were property, Wife seeking nsa Montross be protected from defilement from those outside the family, and men were, Sexy women wants casual sex Fort Lee, never raped.

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Another complicating myth is that boys sexually abused by men become homosexual.

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